How to Stop Your Dog

From Barking

By

Larry Parr

 

We want our dogs to bark if there’s trouble (“What? Timmy’s fallen down the well?!”) but it is annoying both for us and for others if our dog barks constantly.  It can also be a lot more than just annoying – many communities have laws about barking dogs and with as few as three complaints in some communities you can be fined or your dog can be removed from your home for excessive barking.

 

Experts tell us that the main reason dogs bark is that they are bored or lonely.  On the one hand this is a difficult problem to solve since most of us like to spoil our pets when we’re with them.  So when we leave them or put them outside they miss us and all of the attention we give them – and so they bark.

 

They bark because they want our attention.

 

If we give them our attention for barking then we are training them to bark more in the future. By this I mean if we put our dog outside and the dog barks and we bring it back in what have we taught it?

 

We’ve taught it that barking works.  We’ve told the dog that we want it to bark.

 

So how do we deal with unwanted barking?  The best answer seems to be negative reinforcement.

 

One training method is to stand calmly in front of your dog and when it barks say the word “Quiet” and then throw a glass of water in the dog’s face. Generally it doesn’t take very long (maybe two to three days of doing this on a regular basis) for the dog to get the message.

 

Once the dog gets the idea then just the word “Quiet” will be enough to stop the barking.

 

This method of training is not recommended with a dog which bares its teeth and shows anger when it is barking. If your dog exhibits symptoms of aggression or hostility while it barks this may be a sign of a serious psychological problem; consult your vet.

 

Very often, without realizing it, we, as dog owners, do things with our dogs with the best of intentions which make problems worse instead of better.

 

If you make your dog the center of the universe and then leave her or him alone why would you be surprised that the dog barks?  Of course it’s going to bark – you taught it that it is the center of the universe so naturally it’s going to bark if that universe abandons it.

 

Don’t overdo a good-bye to your dog.  You believe that your dog understands the words you say to it – but it doesn’t.  What your dog understands is your tone of voice and your body language. When you overdo your good-bye and overdo your return, what YOU are telling your dog is that your absence is a Big Deal – and this encourages your dog to bark more while you’re gone.

 

Provide your dog a chew toy to distract her or him and then when the dog is concentrating on the toy then – without saying a word – leave the room and close the door.  A few minutes later, reenter the room but DO NOT pet your dog or even make eye contact no matter how much your dog greets you.

 

The point you are making with your dog is that your absence means nothing. You are telling your dog that you ARE going to leave but that you will return and that is NORMAL.

 

When it comes time for you to leave for the day, do NOT say good-bye to your dog.  I know this will be hard on you, but it is important if you want to stop your dog from barking all day while you’re gone. Instead, give your dog a chew toy and when it is not paying attention to you quietly slip out the door.

 

When you return home you MUST remain calm and NOT greet your dog excitedly. Wait until your dog calms down and then tell him or her to sit.  Once the dog sits then a simple head pat and a “good dog” is permissible.

 

Remember, you are training your dog to understand that your being gone is No Big Deal and that you Will Return and that this is NORMAL.  You must not make a big deal out of any of it.

 

If you recall at the very beginning of this article I mentioned that according to experts most dogs bark because they are bored.  So, next we’ll concentrate on keeping your dog occupied while you are gone.

 

There are several chew toys that can actually feed your dog while you are away for the day and by doing so they can distract your dog and prevent boredom for long periods of time.

 

One company that makes long-lasting, quality chew toys is the Kong company.  They have a line of chew toys that are hollow and open at one end so that food can be inserted into them, such as a dry treat or even canned food. Depending on your situation, this may be one way to keep your pet occupied while you are gone.

 

There are also hollow balls in which you can put dry food. As your dog plays with the ball a few morsels of dry food at a time will fall out of holes in the ball.  In this way your pet plays by himself or herself and gets rewarded for it.  You can even hide several of these balls around the house for your dog to find over the course of a day.

 

Your local pet store or your vet may have other suggestions as well.

 

One other solution to the problem of a constantly-barking dog is a special collar which causes a negative reinforcement each time your dog barks.  I feel these collars should be a last resort as they can sometimes give a negative response when the phone rings or even when a plane flies over the house.

 

Also, if someone were to attempt to break into your home while you are away you want your dog to bark in that situation – but with a negative-reinforcement collar on, your dog would be punished for such barking.

 

If your situation is so hopeless that you feel a collar is necessary, we recommend that you use the kind of collar which emits a whiff of citronella when your dog barks.  Your vet and/or pet store owner would be able to recommend one that is right for your dog and your situation.

 

A constantly barking dog is a problem for both you and for your neighbors and many communities will take action to quiet your dog if you don’t do so yourself in very short order.  While some of the techniques may seem cruel (such as not saying good-bye to your dog when you leave) keep in mind that this only seems cruel to YOU but that your dog does NOT think the same way that you do; it is NOT cruel to your dog. 

 

©2005 Larry Parr

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There are two excellent dog training programs which I can personally recommend to you.  One I have personally used, and the other my sister-in-law used and both programs worked miracles.

 

You can read all about the program my wife and I used to train our three dogs HERE.

 

Read about the program my sister-in-law used to train her old hound dog HERE.

 

 

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